This is in continuation to my earlier blog on the subject dated 1st April,2026 presenting here some more views/real life experiences of people who moved to foreign countries & of those who returned back sharing their invaluable insights & suggestions on the subject.They have very elaborately mentioned the pros & cons of moving abroad & returning back to India citing the social & financial implications involved thereof.To my previous post ,some of my valued readers have responded with their invaluable views & opinions on the topic.These will definitely serve as useful inputs for people in dilemma over the decision of moving abroad or returning back to India thus encouraging them in taking the right decision or making the difficult choice under the prevailing situations in a cool calculated manner!
Going through some articles in the print media as well through my personal interactions(on my numerous trips abroad) I have been studying some cases wherein, the concerned after moving abroad ,spent some rosy days in the mesmerising sceneries, beautiful landscapes,clean fresh air & the civic sense making it a novel experience of a lifetime.After some time one starts confronting some harsh realities of the place which needs so much maneuvering & adjustments with little help from colleagues & the local administration in the totally new environment.It creates so much of stress & anxiety.
After my exhaustive study of the subject I have some brief submissions to make for my valued readers to critically inspect & analise the gravity of the situation being faced by the people moving out ,returning back & yet those who are in a dilemma(whether to return or not) to choose the right alternative(subject to the set of prevailing conditions before them )out of the numerous options available to choose from.
1)When Indians move abroad what catches them off guard is the strange cultural flatness that creeps in after the initial euphoria fades :Indians find it hard to mingle with the locals owing to the language issue & the absence of common cultural interactions.
2)Indians avoid Indians like a plague !This may seem a bit bewildering but is mostly true !I encountered this trend during my foreign visits!Mostly they will avoid you by physically dodging you & in case yuo succeed in coming near them they will knod their head & walk away hastily!This was so perplexing & I could only think about their mindset which says why to come in contact when the successfully left India to keep away from them.Amazing?
3)Life abroad is lonely ,cold & expensive :Mostly for a single person, life is lonely after spending a little time ordering Swiggy & watching Netflix!If your paycheque isnt very healthy ,you may not be saving much after paying heftily for flat rent ,costly grocerries, wifi/ mobile network & so on!The list is quite lengthy! Your motive of coming abroad is defeated if you cant save for the future if at all you came here to earn big money or was it your purpose to escape from responsibilities back home !Simple conclusion is that you cant fulfill your monetory aspirations unless both the spouses are earning or IF you are already a very rich person.
4)Life is cold & Lonely more so in winters when the sun sets at 4pm and your body begins to forget what Vitamin D feels like ?In such scenario a person suffers on both accounts: physically as well mentally a)Physically due to the defficiency of nutrients & proper nourishment in the body(more so if person is single with no one to assist)& b)Mentally due to sense of melancholly rendered due to cloudy & gloomy atmosphere compounded by the lingering memories of the near & dear once back home.This is where depression sets in so very dangerous for physical & mental health.Every time you see all your friends/family celebrating together in festivals, you’ll feel very lonely here.
5)Not admitting the actual life situation due to ego issues which is again unhealthy for the indivisual suffering all alone by not asking for counselling or help in whatever form desired under the circumstances !There should not be any issue in speaking out your problems which could be addressed timely to avoid physical & mental agony(the situation is similar to the one where you try to hide your ailments from your Doctor)
REAL LIFE EXPERIENCES OF PEOPLE WHO MOVED ABROAD & RETURNED BACK
Why Life Abroad Wasn’t What Indians Expected – Money Isn’t Everything:
-A Story by Nidhi.
For years, leaving India for the West or the Gulf was seen as the ultimate life plan — a ticket to higher salaries, better standards of living, safe cities, global education for children, and a more comfortable future. But increasingly, Indians abroad are discovering that a bigger paycheque doesn’t automatically translate into a better life. Beyond currency conversions, banking slips, and job titles, there are real-life everyday trade-offs that no one fully prepares you for.
In fact, even wealthy Indians who can afford to move abroad are choosing migration as much for quality of life factors as financial ones and some are now quietly reassessing that decision. A growing number of migrants and survey data suggest that aspirations meet reality in unexpected ways. Money remains important, but once the bills are paid and taxes deducted, the personal and emotional cost of life overseas begins to emerge as a central theme for many.
1. More Indians Want to Move Abroad, Even the Ultra-Wealthy
A recent survey by Kotak Mahindra Bank’s private banking division, conducted with consultancy EY, reveals that migration is not just for students and workers — even the super-rich are planning to move abroad. According to the report, about one in five ultra high net worth Indians (UHNI) — those with a net worth above ₹25 crore are considering settling overseas.
These wealthy Indians cite reasons beyond money:
a)Better living conditions and lifestyle abroad. b)Superior healthcare systems,c)Better educational opportunities for children,d)Easier business environments in host countries e)Two-thirds of the wealthy respondents said smoother business conditions were a key factor, and many intend to make their host country their long-term or permanent base.
This phenomenon shows that migration motivations have broadened. For the affluent too, quality of life is a major decision driver – not just salary.
2. Financial Gains Are Real, But Are Far From the Whole Picture:
One of the key drivers for Indians moving abroad has always been money. Salaries in the US, UK, Canada, and Europe often look astronomically larger than equivalent jobs in India when quoted in rupees …….But the day-to-day reality tells a different story.
Cost of living in many host countries is very high: rent, transportation, food, insurance, healthcare premiums, and taxes take a big bite out of gross income — often more than migrants anticipate. Online discussions among Indians living abroad highlight this exact point: higher salaries do not always equal better savings or financial comfort because living costs can erode much of that advantage. Even things like groceries and daily bills which may feel affordable in India can seem shockingly expensive in places like the US or UK. This is a frequent theme in discussions where Indians abroad contrast expectations before migrating with realities after.
3. Career Growth Isn’t Always Faster Overseas:
Many Indians move abroad hopeful that international experience will mean rapid career growth — global recognition, quicker promotions, and bigger roles.
While this is true for some, especially in tech hubs and specific sectors, it’s not universal. In some cases, migrants find that job progression is slower than expected, visa restrictions limit opportunities, or the job market is far more competitive than imagined. This sometimes leads to feelings of stagnation despite working hard and earning well. This slowdown in career momentum — contrasted with fast-rising opportunities back home, particularly in India’s booming start-up ecosystem — occasionally makes migrants question whether the move abroad was the right strategic call.
4. Quality of Life – A Mixed Reality:
a)Life abroad offers real benefits ,b)Cleaner public infrastructure, c)Better regulated civic systems ,d)Public safety and rule of law , e)World-class education
But quality of life is a multi-dimensional concept.
Many Indians abroad express that they miss family gatherings, festivals, and familiar social structures that were part of daily Indian life. A Reddit discussion among Indians living overseas reveals that beyond the initial thrill, many people find themselves reflecting on:
a)High living costs ,b)Limited leave time ,c)Loneliness and cultural distance , d)Expensive travel back home ,e)Difficulty maintaining close family ties
All these add a social cost to migration decisions that no paycheque captures.
5. Emotional and Identity Costs:
Beyond economics, there is a deeper psychological aspect to migration — identity and belonging. Some Indians abroad feel fulfilled, while others struggle with cultural integration, feelings of isolation, or a longing for home comforts. These emotional experiences don’t always correlate with income level. For some, the distance from extended family and community is a welcome break from social pressures. For others, it can feel like a loss of identity. Moments such as festivals or family milestones become reminders of what they left behind.
This human dimension money can’t buy social belonging or deep emotional comfort is often only realized years after migrating.
6. The Brain Drain and Economic Implications
Migration does not just affect individuals – it shapes economies. India’s large diaspora population is among the world’s biggest, and Indian migrants contribute significantly through remittances and global networks. Yet perceptions about economic pressures at home from infrastructure challenges to public services – do play into individual decisions to move. For some Indians, leaving is seen as securing a better future for their children, rather than simply chasing higher pay.
The Kotak survey underscores this complex motive: education, lifestyle, and business environment rank just as highly as financial reasons for those thinking of migration.
7. Decisions Are Personal – Not Binary:
Not everyone abroad regrets their decision. Many migrants cherish the personal freedom, civic safety, quality public services, and lifestyle benefits they enjoy. Some share that the move brought them growth, independence, and opportunities they never would have had in India. But for a growing cohort, especially those who moved with expectations shaped primarily by income numbers, the lived reality highlights a broader truth: money is only one part of life satisfaction. Understanding cultural context, emotional roots, social comfort, and long-term personal goals often proves more important than gross salary or foreign currency income.
Why do Indians choose to go abroad & Settle there:So many reasons clear as day
Story by Amit Ghule,
Project Engineer in America
Disclaimer: I love my country with all my heart. My opinion here is based on practical observations, which does not imply that I dislike India as a country. I love the good bits about my country, but I do not mention them here since that isn’t the scope of the question. Also, I speak from the point of view of an Indian in America.
- Education – Our education system needs a major overhaul. Emphasis on repetition and recitals, judging answers by their lengths and number of pages filled, bias shown by the examiners in vivas/oral exams/ practicals, authoritarian attitude and ego exhibited by professors, are problems with education system. The professors are people who have taken up teaching as their full time occupation for years and have lost touch with industry. The education material taught is not in line with what is happening in the industry – consequently each year thousands of students pass out who are unemployable because they cannot apply their knowledge.
- Exams in US are purely to test your skills- you can carry papers with factual data and formulae with you to exams. The exam time can be extended if majority of students haven’t finished their paper – it’s a test of your skills, not about how fast you can write. You can answer a 10 point question with a single sentence if that sufffices, and you get 10 points. The professors are retired Industry people who occasionally call in their work buddies (CEOs, CTOs, heads of companies usually) to the class for guest lectures. You don’t get KTs or are failed. They work WITH you so that you pass. They WANT you to pass. The professors have free hand over the syllabus, the books the exam and its grading structure and the class conducting – the professors are happy and thus teach practical things that you can actually apply in the industry.
2. Employment – I have seen my friends in India being humiliated by the watchmen to the HR, going from company to company to drop off their resumes for jobs. A handful of students get recruited in good companies. A herd of sheep moves to Infosys, Wipro and TCS who recruit engineers for mundane jobs with illegal work bonds of couple of years. I’ve rarely heard of an effective college placement office that did its job rightfully. That is also due to the fact that there are more candidates/students than their are jobs available. (Seriously, stop opening up new colleges and start improving the existing ones!)
Here, you have so many avenues to get jobs. I volunteer at a non-profit for entrepreneurship a couple of times and they offered me a job despite being an international student. I worked on a project in a class and one of my professors buddies (a senior R&D director at a reputed medical device company) offered me a paid internship. I have had few friends here approach people on LinkedIn and get referrals to jobs. The university-industry interface and connect is so seamless that you get a fair chance of getting employed. That’s also because there ARE so many available jobs out there.
3. Social life – This is somewhat of a pros and cons situation. I love that if your car breaks down on the street in India, there will be 10 people rushing to see if you need help. If you are arguing with your partner on the streets, people will most likely jump in with a ‘are Bhai, kya hua?’ to help solve it.
That’s also the reason why your sexual orientation, your actions, the way you dress, talk, behave and carry yourself is constantly judged by people. They feel they have a right to do so. I see people with face tattoos, bright blue hair with half the head shaven, drag queens, gay couples kissing in public, girls wearing short shorts and deep (by our standards) cleavages normally walking about on the streets and I think ‘this definitely cannot be happening on the streets in India.’ You are free to do what you want with no judgement. If that is loneliness or solitude, isolation or personal space, you decide.
4. Work- life balance – I have worked in Mumbai wherein I worked 8am to 11pm for months on end. I would be called in on weekends. I don’t blame the company, but that was horrible work ethic. And that is a norm for many that I know.
People here do not make you wait till late night to work on something. They do not expect you to come in on weekends or from your vacations. (Of course there’s exceptions. friends at Tesla have worked for 12 hrs in a day, but they say they wanted to do that and weren’t asked by the company to do so. Same for friends working with startups.) You are treated well.
5. Infrastructure and facilities – The public transport. The roads. You know what I’m saying.
6. Bureaucracy – never have had to get something attested, or photocopied. Almost never had to carry a passport sized photo. Social Security Number will pull up my history when needed. I love the fact that Aadhar card system is being implemented on similar lines.
7. Better pay– people get paid well right off the bat if compared, since most currencies are stronger to our Rupee.
People who don’t plan to settle save money earned here and send it back. (You Save $100 here and its not much, but you send it back it will be ~Rs. 7,000, which is considerable.) They buy houses/invest it/ pay off loans and liabilities, and prepare things for eventual retirement in India. Every nation has its own set of problems. We deal with female safety, US has gun control. We have beggars, US has homeless people. The medical bills here are so huge that people can fly to India, get operated and fly back in lesser amount that what it would be to get operated here.
Nevertheless. The bottom line would be India’s population density is high. There’s only so much with given infrastructure that can be provided to all. Thus, some people choose to move to places they feel that can provide for them. Seeking betterment of yourself and your family isn’t wrong. It doesn’t always correlate to your patriotism, but to your pragmatism.
WHY MORE INDIANS ARE MOVING ABROAD & THEN REGRETTING IT ?
A Story by Pranav :
By the time your friend tells you they’re flying off to Toronto, Melbourne, or Berlin, you already know the script. They’ll post a gleeful airport selfie, a tearful goodbye to their dog, and a LinkedIn update that includes words like “grateful,” “excited,” and “new beginnings.” But fast forward a few months, and suddenly those airport selfies start to dry up. The new beginning? It’s starting to feel more like an existential middle. So what’s going on? Why are so many Indians, after months (or even years) of IELTS prep, visa applications, and goodbye parties, beginning to wonder if they made a huge mistake?
The Big Fat Dream of “Settling Abroad”
Let’s be honest. For many Indians, moving abroad is not just a decision. It’s a legacy. You don’t simply go to another country. You “settle,” like your cousin’s best friend’s husband who moved to Canada in 2014 and now drives a Tesla. Or that one girl from your school who posts New York skyline pictures with captions like “blessed beyond words.” Whether it’s the allure of better job prospects, a cleaner environment, or the sheer prestige of saying “I live in the U.S. now,” the grass has always looked greener on the other side — quite literally, because it rains a lot more there. But the truth behind the visa stamp is a little less shiny.
The Culture Shock Nobody Prepares You For
When Indians move abroad, most are prepared for a little homesickness. They expect to miss the food, their families, and probably the luxury of having someone else do their laundry. But what catches many off-guard is the strange cultural flatness that creeps in after the initial euphoria fades. You go from Diwali with 30 cousins to a muted Skype call at 3 a.m. from your studio apartment. The neighborhood doesn’t smell like samosas anymore. It smells like snow and silent streets. And no one invites you over randomly for chai and unsolicited career advice. Making friends abroad is also harder than it looks. Unless you count the cashier at the mL Nk supermarket who says, “Hi, how are you?” without waiting for a reply. Or your Pakistani Uber driver who asks if you like biryani and gives you a nod of mutual homesickness.
Work-Life Balance or Work-Life… Confusion?
One of the biggest reasons Indians head west is the promise of a better work-life balance. But here’s the plot twist: balance is a lot more boring than expected. In India, your life is your work sometimes, and as much as that can be frustrating, it also gives you a sense of motion and connection. Abroad, things can get eerily slow. You clock out at 5, and then what? Netflix? A lonely walk through a park where nobody even makes eye contact? Also, that whole idea of meritocracy in the West can come with its own hidden layers. Yes, there’s less hierarchy. But there’s also less warmth. Your boss might smile at you, but good luck getting a Diwali off without a half-hour HR negotiation and a passive-aggressive calendar invite titled “Happy Holidays.”
The Ice-Cold Reality of Climate
Let’s take a moment to talk about weather. Because no matter how many jackets you buy, nothing prepares you for the bone-deep sorrow of a Canadian winter. You start to understand why people drink hot soup out of paper cups and wear thermal underwear like it’s a fashion statement. One day you’re battling heat in Delhi, and the next, you’re Googling “how to de-ice windshield” at 7 a.m. The weather isn’t just a temperature change. It’s an emotional adjustment. Especially when the sun sets at 4 p.m. and your body begins to forget what vitamin D feels like.
The Economic Reality Behind the Glamour
There’s also the money situation. Everyone assumes that dollars and euros are automatic upgrades from rupees. But guess what? Earning in dollars also means spending in dollars. Rent is wild. Grocery shopping becomes a strategic game of “What can I live without this week?” And Indian food, if not cooked at home, is either way too expensive or tastes like someone added sugar to turmeric and hoped for the best. Sure, salaries are higher, but so is everything else. And unless you land a truly golden job (and even then), saving money while trying to keep up with basic expenses becomes its own math puzzle.
Social Status: The Illusion That Follows You–
Here’s the funny part. Even if life abroad is kind of lonely and cold and expensive, there’s still pressure to act like everything’s going amazing. Why? Because back home, you’ve already told everyone you’ve “settled.” You post photos of sunsets and captions about growth. You mention your office building has free coffee. You show your new apartment, carefully cropped so no one sees the two roommates you share it with. Because admitting regret feels like admitting defeat. And nobody wants to be that person who went abroad only to say, “Actually… it’s not as great as I thought.”
When Home Stops Feeling Like Home:
The real kicker? Even if you do come back, you don’t fit in the same way anymore. Your friends have moved on. Your old job market feels like a time capsule. And everyone keeps asking, “Why’d you come back?” It’s like you became a different person in a different timezone, and now you’re somewhere in between. Not fully abroad, not fully home. Just suspended in a strange cultural jet lag.
So Why Are Indians Still Going?
Because the dream still sells. Despite the many challenges, people continue to chase that international dream. And to be fair, for some it does work out beautifully. They build a new family, find purpose, and learn how to navigate both worlds. But for many others, the dream turns out to be a carefully filtered version of someone else’s Instagram highlight reel.
And here’s the truth no one puts on their visa application: moving abroad doesn’t magically fix things. It just changes the setting.
What’s the Takeaway?
If you’re reading this while studying for the GRE or updating your resume for a job in Berlin, don’t worry. This isn’t a guilt trip. It’s just a heads-up. Moving abroad can be amazing. It can also be unexpectedly hard, weirdly lonely, and filled with the kind of growth that doesn’t look good on Instagram. It’s not about whether it’s right or wrong. It’s about whether it’s right for you. Before you buy that ticket and pack your pressure cooker, maybe ask yourself a few question:
a)Are you running to something, or running from something? , b)Do you have a support system, or just a fantasy?, c)Can you handle snow in April? (Seriously. It happens.)
In the end, whether you stay, go, or come back, it helps to remember that life isn’t a race to settle somewhere. Sometimes the real adventure is just figuring out where you belong, with or without maple syrup, subway maps, and snow boots. Unlock insightful tips and inspiration on personal growth, productivity, and well-being. Stay motivated and updated with the latest at My Life XP.
1)Mr X posted his real life experiences /comments regarding his return to India:
Nothing surprised me . I was in India for 30 years of my life. I find these people very dramatic who go to other countries and once they come back pretend that they gonna faint the moment they set their foot in. I was in the US working for 3 years and left voluntarily ( No visa or Job issue ) . I left my job consciously. So despite the popular opinion that people with only job or visa issue come back is bit false.
Coming back to my reasons , western world is very individualistic, personally not for me . It killed me everyday to deal with the loneliness. The social dynamics of Americans is very different from the Indians. The struggle to always converse in English and only to a very selective topic is honestly a struggle ( I mean , how long can you talk about the weather or food ). The Indians in the US avoid other Indians like a plague. You might just be all by yourself. You drown yourself in work. My mental health was deteriorating. I had no friends or family there. The sadness increased every year around the winter time.
I also saw lots of people in the same boat , who were struggling more than me ( you won’t find them online or they are too proud to admit that because leaving India should solve all your problems, right ? ).
I left in 2023 and couldn’t be more content since then. I acknowledge my privilege of having a drama free family who was supportive throughout and a job with a supportive manager as well. India has tens of thousand of issues but at the end of the day it’s a trade off and ….. I would rather live here in India than be all alone abroad .
2)Mr Y posted his real life experiences /comments regarding his return to India:
I lived in the US for nearly a decade. Moved back to take care of my parents and be close with the family.I absolutely love it. While it does take some time to adjust your mindset and expectations coming back from the Western world, once you adapt you will home. After all, India is our “home”. Yes there are inconveniences like pollution, traffic etc. If your finances are in a good shape, you can avoid most of these inconveniences. Get a good car and avoid public transport, living in a good gated community etc.
While I did enjoy my time in the US, the lifestyle there is hyper individualistic and extremely materialistic. I always wanted to move back because the culture and sense of community in India is unmatched and I didn’t want to be in rat race of PR and citizenship forever. Plus, if you can transfer your job within your current company from abroad to India that helps a lot!! Good luck!
3)Mr Z posted his real-life experiences and comments regarding his return to India: I am from a relatively rich family in India. I stayed in the UK last 3 years on a visa working in a software role there. Out of those 3 years, 2 years I stayed as a bachelor and my first year of marriage. I just returned back from there to India permanently this week only.
Here are my thoughts(Thoughts of Mr. Z) :
There’s no right answer. It all boils down to individual choices and situations. If you have a toxic family in India, the freedom you have abroad is amazing. And first year of marriage away from others intervening in your life was certainly helpful. The work life balance, fresh air, simpler weather were all better. However on the downside, you’ll always have a sense of loneliness which you’ll never lose. You’ll have to manage your daily households, washing utensils, and all household chores which can easily be handled by a maid in India. Every time you see all your friends/family celebrating together in festivals, you’ll feel very lonely. Things are ,of course, super expensive.
Overall, it’s a tough choice to make and I myself am still doubting my decision of coming back. Lot of people were really surprised to see me come back.
4)Young Physio Manav Shah quit Rs 40 LPA UK job, starts over in India. Here’s why
Physiotherapist Manav Shah had what many would call a dream start, a high-paying job in the UK with just over a year of experience. But behind the financial success, he felt increasingly restricted by the structure of a traditional 9-to-5 job. He later shared that the routine began to feel suffocating, describing it as a space where he felt mentally confined, almost like being trapped. Over time, the comfort of a stable salary was no longer enough to outweigh his desire for independence and control over his own work life.He wanted to work as an enterprenuer
DID LONELINESS ABROAD PLAY A BIGGER ROLE THAN MONEY :
Beyond career goals, Shah also spoke about the emotional reality of living overseas. While the UK offered financial comfort and a high standard of living, it lacked the everyday emotional connections he valued deeply. He shared that loneliness is often an unspoken challenge for many professionals abroad. Simple moments, like spending time with family, having conversations over tea, or being physically present with loved ones, were missing. Over time, this emotional distance made him reassess what truly mattered to him.
In the end, his decision reflects a larger question many young professionals face today: Is success only about money and stability, or also about freedom, purpose, and emotional well-being?
5)”CONTRAST IS SO ABSURD”:INDIAN WOMEN ON IDENTITY CRISIS AFTER MOVING BACK FROM LONDON :
Story by Bhavya Sukheja
Reflecting on her time in London, Janhavi Jain said everything about her life there “made sense”. In recent times, conversations around reverse migration and the emotional challenges of returning home after living abroad have been gaining traction on social media. Adding to the discussion, a post by an Indian woman has struck a chord with many users who related to the sense of displacement she described after moving back to India from London.
Taking to X, Janhavi Jain spoke about the “very specific kind of identity crisis” that comes with returning home after building an independent life overseas. “Moving back to India after living abroad is a very specific kind of identity crisis nobody prepares you for,” she wrote. Reflecting on her time in London, Jain said everything about her life there “made sense”. “The independence, the career, the routine, the version of myself I’d built over years,” she said. However, returning home created a stark contrast. “Then you come home and your room is exactly how you left it. Your mom still knocks before entering (sometimes). The neighbourhood aunty still asks ‘shaadi kab hai.’ And you’re sitting in the same chair where you studied for boards at 17 except now you’re on a call with a supplier in Korea about formulation stability in humid conditions,” Jain wrote, calling the contrast “so absurd”.
How Did Social Media React ?
Her post quickly resonated with many who had undergone similar transitions. Several users agreed that the initial months after returning can be particularly challenging. “Yes, its a kind of a identity crisis & your mind will do multiple iterations of your decision , But the first few months will be difficult takes a lot of adaptations, you just need to weigh the benefits & make your decision based on your age,family etc,” one user wrote.
“It’s like living two versions of your life at once you’ve outgrown the old space, but it hasn’t caught up with who you’ve become,” commented another.
“Can’t agree more, still struggling to make myself at home, after returning back from Sydney after 6 years. Life is a book and when one chapter closes another begins,” said a third user.
“It’s a perpetual identity crisis and not many can understand unless you have lived it. It made me really question the idea of, ‘What truly is home?’ wrote one user.
At the same time, a few users offered a contrasting perspective, arguing that life abroad is often glamorised. “Well, everybody’s got their preferences. But, in all honesty people back at home should stop glamorizing abroad and immigrants living there just to make folks realize how non-existential their life is in their homeland.
6)Women Shares What Working in India is Really Like for NRIs Who Move back :
Story/Edited by Nikhil Pandey
For the growing number of Non-Resident Indians returning home to work, the dream of reconnecting with their roots often meets a rather different reality on the ground, according to NRI counsellor and author Nupur Dave, who shares candid insights with her followers on Instagram.
Dave, who advises Indians navigating life between countries, says the first thing that catches most returning professionals off guard is geography. Multinational companies tend to cluster in tech parks on the city fringes, think Whitefield in Bangalore, Gurgaon outside Delhi, or Hinjewadi on the edges of Pune, placing workers far from the cultural heart of their cities. This creates an immediate dilemma for anyone moving back. Live centrally, close to the cafes, the culture and the social scene, and face a commute of up to 90 minutes each way through some of the world’s most punishing traffic. Or opt for a flat near the office on the outskirts, where rent is manageable and the commute is a breezy 15 minutes, but where the evening offers little beyond food delivery apps and streaming service
“Most times the decision gets made for you,” Dave writes, “based on where you find a decent flat or what rent you can actually afford.” Beyond the logistics of where to live, the rhythm of the working day itself takes adjustment. Lunch in India is rarely a rushed, solitary affair eaten at a desk. Colleagues gather in groups, wander the food court together, gossip and linger. It happens at 2 in the afternoon, not noon, and it is unmistakably social in a way that many returning NRIs find both surprising and rather welcome after years of eating sad desk salads on conference calls abroad. Dave is careful not to romanticise the experience. This is not, she stresses, the soft-focus homecoming narrative that fills social media feeds. It is the daily grind: the traffic, the heat, the noise, the late lunches and the office friendships that gradually, unexpectedly come to mean something.
Whether the trade-off is worth it, she suggests, comes down to what a person actually values. Those who prize efficiency, reliable infrastructure and orderly systems may find the chaos a strain. Those who are willing to exchange convenience for human connection and the warm unpredictability of Indian city life may find, in time, that they have come home after all .
Appeal to My Lovely Readers:
As my valued readers must have already realized the plight of some people moving to foreign land in quest of greener pastures who have not succeeded in their mission to a prosperous,peaceful & healthier lives !Being not able to take a decision to return back or stay they have gone into negativity & severe depression!Therefore I request my readers to kindly respond with their comments/suggestions which will infuse in them a sense of positivity & courage enabling them to take ‘the critical’ decision shaping their future life!Your comments may be conveyed to them through this post.Also we know (irrespective of our nationalities) that we are all brother & sisters of the Global community residing on the planet Earth!Lets together make this place better place to live peacefully, free of all violence exhibiting compassion towards one & all.Happy Reading, Friends!
My earnest gratitude to the people who have posted their views & real-life experiences in different News media/megazines on above subject & contributed to creation of this Blog: Mr Pranav ,Mr Amit Ghule ,Mr.Nikhil Pandey ,Miss Bhavya Sukheja & Miss Nidhi.





















































































































































































































































